Biggest reason Date One doesn't turn into Date Two

Biggest Reason Date One doesn't turn into Date Two

Many of the women I coach with complain that they have lots of first dates but don't get called again for a second date. They are usually perplexed as to the reason for this. Many men wonder why their first dates don't return their phone calls.

Of course, the reasons for this are as varied as there are people. Some of the biggest reasons are pretty straight-forward and include

1. lack of chemistry (no spark)
2. atrocious table manners (no training on eating in company, I suppose)
3. too aggressive/too timid
4. poor hygiene/no sense of how to dress appropriately
5. lack of basic conversation skills
6. negative attitude
7. agreeing with everything (no opinion of their own)
8. arguing on a first date (no there's a hefty warning sign)
9. being overly solicitous (trying too hard)
10. still pining away (or railing at) a former partner

I'd love your opinion about why you don't go on a second date. If you don't know why, give me your best guesses.

As always, I wish you the best of success in your dating adventures! Michelle
www.trueloveafter40.com