"We need to talk"

Women: do you say these words often?
Men: do you run for the hills at the sound of these dreaded words?

Here's a tip for women: instead of saying, "We need to talk," which is often code for, "I have something to tell you about how you messed up and you need to listen up and change whatever I'm mad about," try this:

"I need to talk to you."

This is more along the lines of how men talk to each other and it's more truthful. That's not all there is to it, but it's a start.

What are your thoughts about this? Let me know, Michelle

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