How's That Working for You?

Do you have some habits that you defend as "just the way I am"? Do you excuse bad behavior by saying, "I've always done it that way"? Most of us have said these words in our lives.

My question to you is, "How's that working for you?" Is your behavior (like holding grudges, being hot-headed, using sarcasm, passive-aggressiveness, being a control freak, for example) getting you what you want?

If you believe you're a "good catch" yet no one wants to hold onto you once they've "caught" you, what's that about? Do you have many fine qualities coupled with a few really obnoxious behaviors that keep you from finding and keeping the love of your life?

I challenge you to take a good look at your behavior. Stop blaming it on others. Yes, sometimes it's NOT about you. And sometimes it's ALL ABOUT YOU. Do you have the wisdom to figure it out? If not, ask your trusted friends and family members for a down and dirty assessment. As your Relationship Coach for help. That's what she's there for!

I do wish you the best in your dating endeavors! Michelle, your Relationship Coach

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Michelle E. Vásquez, MS, LPC
San Antonio Relationship Coach, Licensed Professional Counselor
I help people attract the life they want and create the relationships that bring them joy.
210-663-94628107 Broadway, Suite 200, San Antonio, TX 78209 http://www.sanantoniorelationshipcoach.com