Here's the fastest way to create discord in your relationship: Snooping. Yes, invading your loved one's privacy will create resentment and anger faster than a speeding bullet. If you think you have to snoop to find out what your beloved is doing, ask yourself, "Is that true?" Then ask yourself (after you quickly answered "yes"), "Is it really true?"
What you gain in "information" you will lose in intimacy. Do you really have a reason to mistrust your loved one? If not, why are you doing this? If your only reason is "so I won't look like a fool," that's not good enough. How do you think you look when you snoop? Like an insecure, untrusting, disrespectful person. Is that good?
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Michelle E. Vásquez, MS, LPCSan Antonio Relationship Coach, Licensed Professional CounselorI help people attract the life they want and create the relationships that bring them joy.210-663-94628107 Broadway, Suite 200, San Antonio, TX 78209
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