What you believe about yourself is what you'll attract to yourself. If you believe that you are a person who deserves to be treated well by others, you'll attract that. If you believe you're not really worthy of being treated well, you'll attract people who will harm you. Think about your past relationships. Were they positive or negative experiences? If they were negative, think about what you believed about yourself at the time.
· Did you stay in an abusive situation because you thought you would never find someone else?
· Did you tell yourself that maybe things would change for the better?
· Did you convince yourself that you weren't important enough to express your opinions?
· Did you believe it wasn't so bad?
· Did you stay because the sex was good, even though you fought constantly otherwise, convincing yourself that it was love?
· Did you feel like you couldn't live without that person?
I challenge you to really examine your beliefs. The beliefs you hold about yourself are the keys to why you may be attracting the wrong kind of person. Dig deep and look at your beliefs. Maybe it's time to do some spring cleaning and get rid of the negative thoughts that have held you back from finding the love of your life.
Michelle E. Vásquez, LPC, Relationship Coach
www.michellevasquez.com
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