Too many people date without a clear objective. We are social creatures; we want to be with other people and we want to be happily attached.
Do you find yourself mindlessly seeking attachments, only to end up with someone who is totally inappropriate for you?
Are you so lonely that you find you are compromising your values just to have someone in your life? Do you hang onto that person because you fear loneliness more than you fear continuing to be miserable?
Do you find that when you begin a relationship, it's always wonderful in the beginning, but it quickly devolves into a power struggle? When the power struggle begins, do you quickly become disillusioned and run away?
How can you find an appropriate partner if you don't know what you want?
As a counselor specializing in relationships, I can help you to focus on what you want and how you can find it. So many times this involves looking within to see what you are doing that is either attracting the wrong person or pushing away the right person.
In both cases, it has very little to do with the other person and almost everything to do with you! That’s where I can help. I can help you create your vision of your ideal relationship. I can also help you change your ineffective behaviors that are keeping you from finding and keeping the relationship you want.
Send me an email with your relationship question to mevasquez55@aol.com I’ll answer it for free. If we decide to work together, we’ll set some concrete, realistic goals to help you become the best YOU possible so you can find the best match for you!
Michelle E. Vásquez, LPC
Relationship Specialist
Licensed Professional Counselor
I help people build strong, healthy relationships
210-663-9462
www.michellevasquez.com
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About Me
- Michelle E. Vásquez, MS, LPC
- Whew! I've had such a life I never expected to have. I have an ex-husband, a late husband, and a new husband. All of that happened before two decades of my life had been completed! I've been a counselor for almost 20 years, which has helped me to develop relationship skills that have helped me both professionally and personally. I have run a half marathon and am training to do another now that I'm turning 45! I have loved and lost, and after almost five years, I still miss my beloved late husband.
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